Thank you for your interest in the Family Constellations Learning Circle
Before you commit your time and money to this “program” you probably want to know what it entails. Below is my best effort to put it in words, but in truth, the Learning Circle, cannot really be described at all. It is a life-changing experience!
The Learning Circle is a flowing field of energy that gives everybody what they came for…and more. There is no curriculum, not much to hang on to for the linear mind, but there will be a whole lot of learning and transformation for everyone who feels drawn to do this. Every Circle is different, because the participants are different, and thus the morphic field (the unique field of information) the group creates together is different every time. As the group’s leader, I will be present with this field and facilitating what wants to be felt, experienced, released and learned. It is an organic process, much like the constellation workshops; but with a group intention of learning and transforming intensively, it creates a different experience than that in a workshop. If this sounds vague, that’s because even I don’t ever know, what’s going to happen and how, until we are actually doing it. Quite fun, if you ask me, but it can be challenging for some very left brained people in the beginning. The way I see it: I am not teaching…the “Knowing Field” and the ancestors are. This guarantees best, that each of the participants will be getting out of this experience what they uniquely need. Healing, expansion, transformation, insights, learning… and facilitator skills, if they desire.
1) Regarding facilitator skills:
My motivation is to teach what is (to me) the most important skill of facilitation: The ability to follow the energy of the constellation, to tune into one’s intuition for information from the knowing field, to facilitate with a humble heart, and to keep an open mind without agenda.
Techniques become visible by watching constellation after constellation, the sentences are repetitive and can be memorized, or better yet, intuited, -but to truly facilitate from the heart center, one has to be grounded, present and unafraid. What I “teach” cannot be put into a curriculum, it is the essence of being, -whether in a constellation or your own life. This work cannot be done with the mind, and thus, it cannot be learned by the mind. Sure, the mind helps to sort things out and to remember the techniques but the true learning and understanding happens in the heart. I attempt to teach the “unteachable”, so I don’t instruct in a linear way. As one student put it: “I didn’t know what or how much I had learned in your training until I facilitated my first constellation. Then I realized that the teaching you imparted had become a part of me without my rational mind recognizing that learning had taken place. The work just flowed effortlessly and I felt I was riding a wave.”
2) Personal Evolution:
This is a self-evolvement class for heart-centered living. You will learn the language of your own heart and discover as a felt reality the connection to every other heart you encounter. This will bring a direct benefit to your day-to-day life: your relationships, your work, your spiritual practice and your emotional and physical health. You will relax the need to control your life with your mind, become present with yourself, live from your heart, develop natural, healthy boundaries and become aware of your inner guidance. Through the experience of your own constellations you will empty your energy field of the accumulation of many generations’ emotional burdens to release limiting patterns and gain the power and confidence to shape your own reality with free will. When you experience the movement of energy towards the “Order of Love” in a constellation enough times, you will recognize this movement everywhere around you. You will be able to easily detect what is out of order in your life, and how to restore balance. You will draw people to you who need your wisdom in this regard. The Learning Circle group will, for its duration, share with you your learning, your constellations and your life’s unfoldment. Each member will be bringing their unique personality, life circumstances, challenges and goals. From the time they all sign up, this group will have an energy field of its own (morphic field) which takes care of each group member and ensures that he/she gets out of it exactly what they need. This bonding field will be strongly felt by all and accelerate everyone’s healing.
As in the facilitation of constellations, I, as teacher, don’t “do” anything in the Learning Circle. I just facilitate the process by tapping into the energy field of the group and bringing through the intelligence that is inherent in it. I am also a learner in the Learning Circle, and all of us, of course, are teachers to each other. The only difference is that I am the leader in this process with more experience in reading the Field.
So it will be a unique adventure, unpredictable in that no group is alike and what you get out of it is tailored to your individual needs. Some of you will want to clear stuck patterns, some of you want spiritual evolvment, some of you aim to enhance your own healing practice with new insights and skills and some of you may want to become facilitators of constellation work. Or maybe you want all of the above and more. Whatever the intention may be, this class can be your vehicle of evolution, once you commit to it.
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that at the moment one definitely commits oneself, Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur that help one that would never have otherwise occurred.
A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now!”